Hello ex-I As I stated I draw a lot of points from all posts and so your last post was a good snapshot of a few points as it happens or could happen. I will concede that I never let anyone control of my mind, soul, emotions. But, as we know, some relationships with young, old, family colleagues beco...
Dear Pink Panther/ ex-I and others Good to see responses and new insights. People who are self-confessed BK, and continuing their affiliations and embedded programmed (monitored) wisdom and practices daily, cannot know what befalls them when they realize they have been taken for a ride. I liken this...
To all the ex BKs - Pink Panther, ex-I, Rita and others I am convinced that there is a mechanism to trap the run-away victim in various ways. From a plain nice talk and being too good to be true in actions and behaviour and make the victim recall the best times etc and maybe a hypnotic suggestion. S...
Hi Rita, I liked the way vLakshmi was writing without bothering to answer my question. That apart and leave her alone. I liked your short and incisive replies. Makes sense a lot. Would like to refer to the post where the street full of robbers was mentioned, that sums up. As I recall some instances ...
Dear ex-l, Pink panther, rita, oldbk, truthexposed and other non-bks Why are we discussing or encouraging vlakshmi values or spiritual belief? I don't care nor should we, she is brought in or sold out to that doctrine. I feel ashamed that she puts God to test. Even for that God must allow it. I aske...
Hi, ex-I, Your entire posts are re-readable and give a true life picture of what happens. I liked the Dadi Janki illness bit. Others worrying. Later Dadi getting magically fine. This reminds me of a tree with Monkeys. The largest monkey doing something and all other smaller monkeys trying to imitate...
Dear Pink Panther and ex- I As I read your posts and elsewhere - yes, it did happen like that for many days and weeks in a row - felt I was cut off from my family and friends. On some weekends, good events like picnics and visit to places were planned when they got the hint I will travel home. I had...
Hi ex-I, Brilliant, read yours after I posted above. The need for getting back earlier into that family was only for the gratefulness for the help extended, but once I came to know of the flirting with others (with me - it was only food and being considered a family member, and as an "agony-hea...
Dear Pink Panther You understood my plight but while not specifying the ways they will lure me back, you have in your words said they will and I must guard myself and move on. In fact, other non-BK sites suggesting ways to go away from cheating friends and colleagues are clear, cut them off from you...
Let move on. Pray for the world - not one only. Somewhere i read the BK waits for billions may die and so they can rule. In which case wonder if you could pray for the billions rather than one.
Lakshmi, I have said - you make sense, you are true at heart and mind in sincere well-wishing for others. Rare to find such who has no plans to take advantage. But my request was clear. How to wield off any solicitation or request to meet or take help when I am in not interested? Now you are praying...
Lakshmi, You did not understand my post. I am not talking about the organization. They can do what pleases them and so the members. You are unique. I never got into the system, so I am an outsider but was being kept as a "useful" resource. My question was to the ex-BKs and their knowledge ...
Pink Panther and other ex-BK who guide the exit, You are one of the pillars in this forum as I read your posts and feel encouraged to be seeking more guidance. Especially what do you do if they want me to be friendly with them again? I have not severed the connections. Just trying to distance now pe...
After reading a few replies (which I thought will never come and this incident will be given a pass), I am happy to see the steadfastness in logic, language, lament, listening ability of ex-l to issues of mine and seen ex-l thoughts across other posts (as I saw after posting mine). There are many ot...
Saw the whole pic in a few months to a year. My story I had just moved from my village home to a new place in a city for a job after completing my CA. I had left my family - wife, kid, parents back in the village bordering a city. Been in touch and visiting my folks regularly. In the months before c...