:shock: :lol: :lol: :lol: Yes, naughty is good. Split Enz ... tops. No, ex-I, not hurting as much these days. Though it still runs deep. It is just there ... I am the really lucky one. I have a life and a future. Those poor old dears ... makes me want to go and give them a massive hug ... They would...
In my situation the guilt of having a relationship, mainly a sexual one, and having made that life long commitment is what started the demise of our marriage. He states we there was nothing wrong with our relationship, but he could not be in a relationship of any sort. He could no longer be around m...
Interesting ... Most PBKs, BKs and ex-BKs that have commented found it highly racist and insulting. As none of the above, I found it to be very critical and extreme in some aspects but it basically upheld what I have learnt here. I do not know about racist from my view, probably because I know nothi...
When I questioned this again to my ex ... the answer? "You do not understand, its not about that." So everyone here, "... you do not understand"! "So, is it not about the absolute truths that 'God' decreed?" I asked. But I was then enlightened by being told I did not se...
But I like the idea for the t-shirt, we should work up our own independent designs; "Have you Hugged a Brahmin today?" ... "A Brahmin is for Life, not just Rakhi" ... "do not Make Love, Make Mahabharata War" ... "I spent 15 years in Gyan and all I got was this Lou...
Slightly different slant here, but if combined with the above line of questioning provides a highly compelling scenario. I just watched a Oprah show about addiction. It demonstrated from a scientific research point of view how the brain is hijacked. Things of high importance and value, such as famil...
I am so pleased at what is being discussed here along this line. I think this aspect has a great deal to do with understanding what the BK lifestyle is about, the whys and wherefores. I had alluded to this before some time back. To explore the very beginnings of the movement, and the reasons behind ...
Dear Mike peace, As being in the position of a medical professional, if anyone attempted to question my professionalism or make assertions about me, I would certainly employ lawyers and rectify the accusations if they were not 100% true ... It is an obligation, and to do otherwise leads to the quest...
Thank you Mr Green for your honesty. I consider I have gotten off lucky. Still got the finalities of legal process, but hopefully finished within a fortnight. Hope he doesn't play games too much, I have him by the short and curlies. It will only cost him more money. The center head should have done ...
Thanks Ex-i, not a problem there. He was never interested in photos etc anyway. i gave him one and he threw it in the trash so ... Boy, oh boy is he cranky at the moment. Rang me about the internet account, I asked when it was due and, boy, did i get yelled out. When i said something he said ... &qu...
Dear Andrey, I do hope you continue posting. I find what you write valuable in gaining some insight into the thought process of a strong believer. It is unfortunate that I, never having been a BK can fully understand what you mean, just as you cannot walk in my shoes. We are all different. I think t...
Such wisdom, yet again Bansy. I am afraid that questioning my integrity or motivations does not sit well with me. I do understand as well that Andrey's native tongue is not English and as it can be such a complex language that any slight change of phrasing can infer a very different meaning. Your ba...
Dear Andrey, an interesting post. I will make this very, very clear ... I did not desert him. I was prepared to stand by him. I was the one who stood by my commitment. If you read my past posts carefully, you will see. He, NOT ME, is the one who leaves the family path. Why? Because his feelings for ...
All I can say is if sex is supposed to dull the intellect, then he must be behaving like a rabbit ... And seeing how he is celibate, what is it that is so adversly effecting his cognitive functioning? And he refuses to see it or admit he cannot function? He cannot run a business nor does he appear t...
An interesting aspect is I have spoken to 2 doctors, one a highly regarded specialist whose god is Shiva, and my personal doctor who is of the Priest caste. Their reactions were, "... this is not a religion, this is nothing but a cult" ... and from the other whose God is Shiva who had neve...