I feel that love, mercy and compassion the way Eugene describes them and motivates them, can be healthy and in fact an aim for us all to achieve, if springing from and being supported by awareness. Otherwise, mercy can be a big trap. We feel we are good, we don't want to harm anyone, we offer the other cheek, we think we merged a lot of garbage, and in fact we have gradually absorbed it, we've become someone's doormats.
So, one thing is standing stall, in the light, conscious of being masters, raja, and not praja-servants,- like BapDada said in the latest Murli, assertive and not rabid, and from that "throne", bestow forgiveness, good wishes that impostor body conscious souls as Button Slammer calls them , can benefit from. What I describe is a stage, a very elevated one. Which passages does a damaged, castrated , dysfunctional , abused and deluded BK soul has to go through, before getting there? Different for each one of us. I see phases of letting the steam of, of realizing any wrongdoings in the BKWSO, the bonding and sharing with other people who had similar experiences and overcoming the fear of "speaking up", breaking the omerta rule, overcoming the fear of being labelled as " anti", going beyond taboos and dogmas, step by step, certainly not overnight, deprogramming..
Throughout these, and many more phases, I think that some of the powers who sustain us, are: the instinct of survival and balance, the strive for truth and justice, like ex-l was writing, real love for the self, the desire to nourish our higher self and not kill it or letting other people choke it. Maybe, before becoming Kannon, or whatever the Buddhist female like deity of Mercy, we have to become Kali, and put our foot down, destroy lies within us, make some space between us and the people or cults that want to condition us or vampirize us.
Nothing wrong with becoming confident or independent minded. Baba is very ambiguous and ambivalent in this. One day he'll say "judge for yourself", next day he will request to set aside our rational mind and just surrender. But this is our intimate relationship with the Supreme. When human beings step into the picture, including SS who pressure BKs in many ways, including to consider them as flawless and never failing gurus, I want to listen to my gut feelings and alert my antennas (hopefully no one managed to cut them completely!) and if something smells "fishy", pause and listen some more, until I get a clearer idea about what's going on.
So, one thing is standing stall, in the light, conscious of being masters, raja, and not praja-servants,- like BapDada said in the latest Murli, assertive and not rabid, and from that "throne", bestow forgiveness, good wishes that impostor body conscious souls as Button Slammer calls them , can benefit from. What I describe is a stage, a very elevated one. Which passages does a damaged, castrated , dysfunctional , abused and deluded BK soul has to go through, before getting there? Different for each one of us. I see phases of letting the steam of, of realizing any wrongdoings in the BKWSO, the bonding and sharing with other people who had similar experiences and overcoming the fear of "speaking up", breaking the omerta rule, overcoming the fear of being labelled as " anti", going beyond taboos and dogmas, step by step, certainly not overnight, deprogramming..
Throughout these, and many more phases, I think that some of the powers who sustain us, are: the instinct of survival and balance, the strive for truth and justice, like ex-l was writing, real love for the self, the desire to nourish our higher self and not kill it or letting other people choke it. Maybe, before becoming Kannon, or whatever the Buddhist female like deity of Mercy, we have to become Kali, and put our foot down, destroy lies within us, make some space between us and the people or cults that want to condition us or vampirize us.
Nothing wrong with becoming confident or independent minded. Baba is very ambiguous and ambivalent in this. One day he'll say "judge for yourself", next day he will request to set aside our rational mind and just surrender. But this is our intimate relationship with the Supreme. When human beings step into the picture, including SS who pressure BKs in many ways, including to consider them as flawless and never failing gurus, I want to listen to my gut feelings and alert my antennas (hopefully no one managed to cut them completely!) and if something smells "fishy", pause and listen some more, until I get a clearer idea about what's going on.