Why do the Dadis look like men?

Actually this was an observation made by my ex-spouse when looking at Dadi Gulzar. She has the look of masculinity about her. Is this just the Yoga doing it's part on the Ying and Yang? Also Dadi P had similar looks. The reason I am asking is not to insult these spiritual leaders - far from it. I just wondered if in the case of Dadi Gulzar that maybe it lends weight to the suggestion that maybe she is taken over by a male (ish) spirit, i.e. Shiva. After all, in a Murli I remember that Baba said there was no gender with a Soul but if you had to put a gender to a Soul it would be more male than female.

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I remember that Baba said there was no gender with a Soul but if you had to put a gender to a Soul it would be more male than female.

A soul is masculine compared to the physical body.

However, in Hindi language the gender of soul is feminine, e.g. atma pravesh karti hai and not atma pravesh karta hai (a soul enters). Wonder why the contradiction !!
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