One thing that your post reinforces for me, enlightened, is that the BK community leaders really don't know how to have a life and, really, as much as good BKs keep trying to expand the boundaries of BK life, we are bundled into their world view.
You mentioned your family's immigration, I am making presumptions here, can you tell us or can you compare life for non-white BKs and white or Western BKs? Do the Senior Sisters treat the two differently and if so, why? Do Indian BKs talk about Western BKs, if so how?
Secondly, do BK children have any "normal" childhood life, e.g. parties with friends, going out, are they allowed non-BK friends, do you celebrate normal festivals or are you entirely separated from non-BK world? Are you expected to sit in your bedroom and be soul-conscious every day?
Lastly, can you give any insight into the lives of children and young Kumaris in India? Are they treated differently again?