You complain about stones being thrown. You mean the references about this forum on bkforum. A forum is a place where everyone states his opinion. It is not all about truth. One can share emotional matters, irrational opinion or even throw stones.
You ask others to see their language, but you use the same language.
You have a very limited and toxic view of us.
I mean to say that you also have to make some steps. I am amazed on how much you push others to do something, instead of yourself doing it.
The matter about personal information being made available is because of the lack of balance. You expose others, whilst at the same time you remain unexposed. If you are true, you will not hide and step forward with your own self.
It is only very recently, after so many years, that people came to know for how long have you been involved in BK as student. This creates some distance. I, personally would like to know something more about you, are you married yourself, have you been, do you plan to, do you have children. How was your family life affected by the BK, your parents, if they have been alive, friends etc.
For me as an observer it seems you put such questions with a lot of force to people, but shy when being put to you. I have already asked you two times about your experiences at Madhuban, meeting Avyakt BapDada, but you just ignore it, like a BK.