What if a woman is really attracted to you???

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jann

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What if a woman is really attracted to you???

Post26 Mar 2009

But what if a woman is really attracted to you??? What if she wants to be with you, touch you, and kiss you? And everything that follows?

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Re: What if a woman is really attracted to you???

Post26 Mar 2009

jannisder wrote:But what if a woman is really attracted to you??? What if she wants to be with you, touch you, and kiss you? And everything that follows?

I cannot say. It never happened. Who knows what could happen if I am also attracted ...
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joel

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Re: What if a woman is really attracted to you???

Post27 Mar 2009

jannisder wrote:But what if a woman is really attracted to you??? What if she wants to be with you, touch you, and kiss you? And everything that follows?

A profound question. All issues related to intimacy, boundaries, defenses, needs, control, surrender of control, self and other are included. One can attempt to be casual; however, it is just that: an attempt. My heart beats faster, remembering some of those moments, and the highs and lows that followed.
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Re: What if a woman is really attracted to you???

Post28 Mar 2009

A brilliant answer Joel. Someone that actually just answered the question that was asked, in the moment.

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