I am sorry to be stupid but what kind of proofs does she want? Or what kind of proofs would be good enough?
We can prove that the whole story of Shiva entering Lekhraj Kirpalani in 1936 and saying, "Shivoham, Shivoham, Shivoham etc" is false and so therefore much of the story of the Om Mandli is false. We can prove there was no mention of Shiva until 1949 and no one seems to know how, when and where and by whom he was "revealed".
But if we show her that, she might just say, "not all The Knowledge was revealed in the beginning". We can also show the early posters where there is no Shiva.
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the earliest Tree, "God" calls Judaism ... Jews ... "Islam". Now, how could the real God of all humanity *not* know Jews existed or their name? Jews and Islam are enemies.
But if we show her that, she might just say, "it was not Baba's fault, it was Lekhraj Kirpalani's mistake or the children's".
We have documented all the false predictions of Destruction.
But if we show her that, she might just say, "Baba has never given a specific date if there is a mistake, it was Lekhraj Kirpalani's or the children's" or "Baba was just testing us", which is the usual response when they finally admit there were failed predictions.
And so on ... you have to appreciate, they have built up a many layers of defences, and have many well used excuses. They tend to believe that it is acceptable to re-write and revise the Murlis to hide the errors, mistakes and bad words of the past.
I am sorry that I cannot be more helpful at present.
If you say she is young, she probably was not even born when I took the course and she probably knows nothing about the 1976 failed prediction of Destruction and how many people gave up their lives, their money and property. They seem to think that is a joke. The leaders have hidden so much from newcomers. Does she know about all that?
And what we she do ... if she has doubts she will get on the telephone to her zone-in-charge or Abu to have her responses to you re-charged and get new ideas, and they are like skilful politicians and arch-manipulators patching up her faith. But you should carry on and find out more.
Excuse me if I say something that sounds impolite. For me, if there is a God, it is true ... of truth. It will be honest. Open. Sincere. Anyone of God, will reflect those qualities ... true, honest, open, sincere, easy to speak to, straightforward. You don't get that with the Brahma Kumaris.
For me, lies, deception, manipulation, brainwashing are all "evils". If there was a Devil, they would be his tools.
Does she know about the suicides and child sex abuse that took place in Delhi and Madhuban?
Now, logically, if the centres were so "pure" and run by God ... how could such things happen? How could they cover them up? (In the case of the Delhi suicide, when the sister-in-charge found the body, she just locked the door to I believe Baba's room and then carried on class and serving toli/Bhog. In the case of Orissa, the
leaders of the center absconded after the girl burned her self alive and the evidence was cleaned up. In Panipat, the leaders also ran away. It seems to be what they do).
We have just got so many of such incidents ... how can one *really* say this is "God". And yet the god of the BKs promises in the Murlis that "like a mother cat to her kittens, he will protect the BKs so that not a hair on their head is harmed". Now, you look at the statement and you look at the facts ... what can you say?
I will help you as I can but, in a sense, we are not fully prepared to do so. We've done a lot of research and it is contained in this forum but we have not had a lot of help from Hindi speakers before now. We have very little idea what happens to Indian ex-BK Hindi speakers. We know there are a lot but we have no way of reaching them.
It would be good if you could start some way of reaching out to them to get their stories. Thank you. I am sure there is a *lot* more abuse going on than we know of and it is *not* good enough to say that it is OK and will be sorted out at Judgement (Dharamraj). That is just an excuse.
The BK leaders want to keep as many people trapped as possible because each one is worth $1,000s to them, therefore they tolerate the bad ones and utilise double standards. 99% ... it's all about the money and power.