because.parmeshwar wrote:I was Kumar BK till 2010 and remain unmarried thereafter.
BP meet namrta6, namrta6 meet BP.
Obviously, I support and encourage any BK to make their own decisions in life. I only suggest that there is honesty and clarity in those decisions and ask questions that, I hope, might lead to them.
Yes, you raise an important issue, BP ... for me also, wanting to be a BK and wanting to be married are mutually conflicting and I would be concerned that the individual was still conflicted and setting themselves up for further conflict in their life.
On the other hand, perhaps it is just a first, honest, step away from BKism.
The question I would ask them is, what do they want to become, a BK or married? Which path and destination do they wish to follow?
The only response I would condemn is that if they wanted to be a BK ... but financially supported by a husband, like women who were married before they became BKs.
But, who knows ... perhaps some BK male would accept taking on a sexless marriage, and wife as a female houseservant, who also did some unpaid labour for the BKs too.
We may not be help to help namrta find a husband or sponsor, but we might be able to help her find what she really wants in life.
Posted: 28 Dec 2017