Anyway ... look at this, from the Avyakt Murli about relationships.
Avyakt Murli 2009/02/22
So now relationships with people are OK??
Avyakt Murli 2009/02/22
... When both come, they are one another's companions and so there are no obstacles and they are united. Otherwise, when there are two opinions, there is conflict. However, when both become united, then the half-kumars can go ahead in service a great deal. You can then make time for this.
Youth also make time, but half-kumars do double the work. What double work do you do? Firstly, you can give more time to world service. Secondly, you can use your wealth in a worthwhile way as much as you want because both of you are willing to do this.
Half-kumars can accumulate as much as they want, you can use way as much as you want in a worthwhile. Why? What is the reason for this? There are no obstacles. Obstacles of your own mind are a different matter, but you don't have any obstacles in relationships. This is why you have a special part in the Yagya.
When people see the half-kumars and Kumaris, expansion takes place very quickly. Others see in a practical way that people from all professions come here, that they are living with their family, they are doing everything and are able to create their fortune. Previously, there was the atmosphere that we make them renounce their home and family, and they were afraid, whereas now they understand that they can do double work and that they receive help. Do you understand? Achcha.
So now relationships with people are OK??