Does being most stable mind or tending towards stability of mind implies that you have to be arrogant, dis-respectful and angry...?
For BKs, their leader's stability of mind is nothing but the severe pain to deal with them. The senior children of ocean of love are hardly loveful with the co-bks. The arrogance and anger can be easily seen from the eyes of the Seniors in place of love. The juniors have to kill their inbuilt and natural love in order to get the BK-stability of mind.
According to them, the worldly love causes sorrow, so get the mind's stability by practicing BK-meditation. The stability of mind actually is the suppression and rejection.
You don't sow any seed, so you don't get any plant, so don't need to water it or fertilize it. Thus you will get a stable land.