the mistake made is not looking inside of her or himself an reviewing her or his spiritual contract.
I fully agree. And it is that contract we need to check every day, or every time we make a decision. It was my asking myself whether this was what I ”signed up for” that led me to one day finally say ”No” and walk away from the BK.
In fact, my tendency, as is common among ”spiritual” people and is taught as part of BK teachings, is to accept failings, to forgive and forget, see it as ”drama” or whatever, so we continually do not evaluate or aggregate the regular ”breaches of contract” that are being done, as we hang on hoping that the other party fulfils its side of the bargain. When it is God, supposedly the Ocean of this, that and the other, you’d expect even one breach would be impossible ...
The BK contract is like a deal done with a mafia boss - once made, you are implicated. It seems there’s no way out and as you are making a bit on the side, or you are promised ”protection” (called extortion - pay us a tithe and you won’t be punished and we will make sure the other tribe don’t punish you either).