Sometimes it is necessary for me to ask if I really, truly, madly, and deeply believe in myself. If I doubt myself what good will that do? It has been said that if one respects oneself then it is possible to respect others. I listen to the way people talk and are and if it is apparent that someone needs more self faith I help them if I can.
Faith is positive and doubt is negative. If someone tries to make me doubt myself I will examine it to see if there is merit. There are those who take a delight in blighting the lives of others through instilling self doubt in them, they somehow feed in a quite pathetic way on other people's pain.
Why should I think that something is wrong with me? What gives me that right? If it ain't broke why fix it? Imagine a car that works perfectly well but the owner is convinced that it doesn't. True, we do get untoward situations in life but that is due to the causes we create. Change the cause, change the effect.
There are some (just a few ) who wish me to have less rights than they have. What a pity. When I come across someone who is very talented I feel privileged and take great pleasure in their achievement(s). To ask someone if they are trying to make one feel good when it is obvious that they are not can be quite disarming, especially if one is smiling at the time. Far better a life of love than a life of hate. If I truly value myself, then I automatically value others too.
Perhaps you would like to spend a few minutes giving your ways of improving self esteem?
I am sure you have something valuable to say!
Faith is positive and doubt is negative. If someone tries to make me doubt myself I will examine it to see if there is merit. There are those who take a delight in blighting the lives of others through instilling self doubt in them, they somehow feed in a quite pathetic way on other people's pain.
Why should I think that something is wrong with me? What gives me that right? If it ain't broke why fix it? Imagine a car that works perfectly well but the owner is convinced that it doesn't. True, we do get untoward situations in life but that is due to the causes we create. Change the cause, change the effect.
There are some (just a few ) who wish me to have less rights than they have. What a pity. When I come across someone who is very talented I feel privileged and take great pleasure in their achievement(s). To ask someone if they are trying to make one feel good when it is obvious that they are not can be quite disarming, especially if one is smiling at the time. Far better a life of love than a life of hate. If I truly value myself, then I automatically value others too.
Perhaps you would like to spend a few minutes giving your ways of improving self esteem?
I am sure you have something valuable to say!