Dear Souls,
Every soul is independent and dependent. Each of us has some individual aim and mutual relationship with other. We live in society. The first one refers to maintain respect and the second is the give respect. Raja Yoga is giving the highest respect to self and to the other. Highest status is Child of God (soul). So considering self as soul and the other as soul is giving highest status to self and the same status to the other. It is like giving/sharing all I have with the other. But for this, one has to realize God. When we meet a stranger, we give respect. If the views of two are different, then we get separated. But we do not become enemy. [This is a big topic; I have explained shortly].
Similarly, as soon as a person become BK, he decides his path of life. He gives knowledge to others(his family people or anybody are like starngers). If others agree, it is fine. Otherwise, definitely there will be detachment. If both realize and respect each other, it is fine. Otherwise, there will be separation. It is obvious.
Even in a family, parents send their children abroad for jobs or higher studies. They sacrifice their attachment for benefit of their children. So is a normal man considers there is benefit by sacrificing lust, he should feel happiness and support him. If he does not realize, he may hate.
Even when my mother had to observe celibacy, there was quarrel in our house. After one month, Father realized and gave permission. You see- now there is double benefit. Father also became pure! Initially (just after becoming BK), mother started cooking onion in a separate vessel for Father separately. After some years, my Father reduced onion intake. Now, sometimes he prepares himself onion food! Internal respect has developed in him! Now there is only one problem to me. My Father is not satisfied by me doing money service to Baba. It is not his wrong. He says make savings. You will need for future. He has no interest in my money but he has attachment as usual. I had some strong arguments with him in this matter. Sometimes, he used to take this issue with my mother and disturb her.
You see problems will be there when there is life. Just by commenting BKs, one gets nothing. It is like spitting towards sky. There are numerous people in this world who do 100 times more sin than BKs. I am not blaming you. I have to explain to the depth. I do not have any other option. All are caught in this Drama which is 80% sweet and 20% bitter.
Every soul is independent and dependent. Each of us has some individual aim and mutual relationship with other. We live in society. The first one refers to maintain respect and the second is the give respect. Raja Yoga is giving the highest respect to self and to the other. Highest status is Child of God (soul). So considering self as soul and the other as soul is giving highest status to self and the same status to the other. It is like giving/sharing all I have with the other. But for this, one has to realize God. When we meet a stranger, we give respect. If the views of two are different, then we get separated. But we do not become enemy. [This is a big topic; I have explained shortly].
Similarly, as soon as a person become BK, he decides his path of life. He gives knowledge to others(his family people or anybody are like starngers). If others agree, it is fine. Otherwise, definitely there will be detachment. If both realize and respect each other, it is fine. Otherwise, there will be separation. It is obvious.
Even in a family, parents send their children abroad for jobs or higher studies. They sacrifice their attachment for benefit of their children. So is a normal man considers there is benefit by sacrificing lust, he should feel happiness and support him. If he does not realize, he may hate.
Even when my mother had to observe celibacy, there was quarrel in our house. After one month, Father realized and gave permission. You see- now there is double benefit. Father also became pure! Initially (just after becoming BK), mother started cooking onion in a separate vessel for Father separately. After some years, my Father reduced onion intake. Now, sometimes he prepares himself onion food! Internal respect has developed in him! Now there is only one problem to me. My Father is not satisfied by me doing money service to Baba. It is not his wrong. He says make savings. You will need for future. He has no interest in my money but he has attachment as usual. I had some strong arguments with him in this matter. Sometimes, he used to take this issue with my mother and disturb her.
You see problems will be there when there is life. Just by commenting BKs, one gets nothing. It is like spitting towards sky. There are numerous people in this world who do 100 times more sin than BKs. I am not blaming you. I have to explain to the depth. I do not have any other option. All are caught in this Drama which is 80% sweet and 20% bitter.