clearernow
because.parmeshwar wrote:What I observed here is, clearernow is pretending an advocate of Bkism and at the same time making himself clear by entering into the discussion, that what would be the consequences if I go ahead following all the Maryadas. He is using this forum to make himself clearer and clearer. He avoids the questions which are practical and pointing directly to the working of Brahmakumaris. In order to respond, he is refering other books/websites and using them to answer here and hence satisfying his ego of NOT surrendering in front of non-believers.
Sorry to interfere ... but I would like to draw your attention clearernow, there is no need to advocate the Bkism by using other references. It is all based on the following up of Maryadas. You have to go on to achieve the real touchings.
If you have selected 10-n practices wonderful for you and you start stepping on that 10-n practices, and while following those 10-n practices, again you will find n1 practices wrong, (because you are not following Maryadas) and this process continues till finally it become 10-10=0
And then ... the result will beLoss of Family, friends,:
List can be elaborated much much more ...
Loss of precious time
Loss of hope about the materialsitic world (the Shudra’s world according to BK)
Difficulty in finding another GOD (because by that time our subconscious will accept the BK’s god as the real God).
If you really believe in Bkism, just walk ahead. Forget about discussing and advocating them on this forum. Have faith in yourself and don’t stop and don’t be selective. It is like climbing a mountain, you can not say that I will partially climb, and them swim, then again climb, and then again swim.
If you’ve decided to climb, go on climbing, don’t look down, as it is DANGEROUS.
And thankfully what I am experiencing for years after leaving the path is just the opposite of your predictions about my future. Dear Friend, please give yourself some time to heal, right now you are not able to appreciate it but believe me there is no loss, I am only learning and gaining more and more (And, Oh my God, I couldnt believe that you went all the way to convince me that it will become zero!!! Shows how much personal anger and pain you have right now). All losses you metioned above are fictitious however and gains that I am having for a long time now on all those fronts are REAL.
I am sorry but even when I stayed on the BK path, I never had those losses, My friend circle only got richer..so there is no question of any loss on those fronts now. Oh, its a pity that this web-site has a filter wherein anything positive gets heavily bashed and, yes, I am becoming more and more clear that I will follow my heart :-). I hope for very best for all of you - Go on and on looking at everything negatively.
For me the glass is half-full and Bkism has at least left one deep impact on my way of thinking and looking at life - try to see things positively. There is no point looking at everything negatively because you felt so. There are numerous families living more happily after adopting the BK path and yes there may be numerous examples whereing people couldnt strike balance or decided to leave everything. But that's not from coercion, thats from individual choices people make for their lives and if they realize that they made a wrong decision they put the blame on the fellow travellers of that path.
I challenge all of you to share 10 Murlis out of hundreds that advised to literally leave your families and friends and responsibilitie or not to care for them. BK path was not to follow BKs it was to follow what was in Murlis. If your fellow travellers did leave wasnt it their choice? I am not advocating anything - I am only saying that THIS WEBSITE IS FULL OF NEGATIVE CRITICISM and heavily biased and people are failing to show the positive side of experiences from BKs.
Constructive debates are heavily discouraged here and this thread is a perfect example that even when people try to share the positive side of life changing experiences on an spiritual practice, they are COERCED to such limits to believe that their sweet experiences and happiness wouldn't last in life just because the key bloggers of the site are complely Anti-BKs and a path left a bitter taste in their mouths??
I am pretty sure Ex-I and others are scrutinizing every word I have said above - will filter 1-2 sentences they could magnify with negative opinion and make people believe that actually nothing is positive.
I would like to ask the Admin of this site and tell me YES or NO?
Are people allowed to share anything positive about BKs when they have clearly experienced and benefitted so much? Why is this seen as advocating the path and people commenting negatively are encouraged -arent they heavily ADVOCATING something here out of their personal experiences and encouraging others to follow their opinions? If talking positive and making people believe about their practices is a Brainwash then coercing to such extremes to people who are so clearly able to benefit and see positive about the practices of a path is also BRAINWASH so my dear friends who visit this website - DO WATCH OUT. The title says its independent information but its only independent if you are able to share negative criticism.
If you answer is NO then I wouldn't waste my time anymore and let people go on with their rambling negative opinions about everything. Do you only allow a handful of Ex-BKs that are completely anti-BKs (and, yes, they did not have good experiences so its fine to let them share negative experiences - I don't have a problem with that) and can only bring the negative side of a path that certainly have a lot of positive side? If you only allow people to say only negative then I am happy to stay away from this site and this itself shows its not a constructive effort and doesnt allow balanced opinions.
If your answer is NO, I wish all of you a beautiful life full of happiness and joy ahead and take a break here.