I met the BK friend of mine. The traits of her behavior are confusing. Let me try to explain and give me your suggestions.
She said that weekends she is very busy doing BK events and Indian classical music work. Quite innocently. Looks like she is not suspicious of non-bks. She seems to be really happy.
Now, traits of BK.
Impression:
- - She is an engineer works in the Software Industry in Bangalore for past 10 years. Dedicated to her work.
- Stays alone, family is upset because she hasn't married and refused marriage. Her point is I have right to choose my life as per my requirements and I am very happy in it.
- Other than BK, she follows Indian classical music and organizes musical functions also (note: this is good).
- Her facebook friend list comprises both engineer friends and BK friends.
She said that weekends she is very busy doing BK events and Indian classical music work. Quite innocently. Looks like she is not suspicious of non-bks. She seems to be really happy.
Now, traits of BK.
- - Before meeting face to face, tried to initiate discussion about BK, way of life etc. Cold response. is not willing to discuss. Whatever it is, she is fully convinced.
- Is involved with BK at least for 5 years.
- Has canceled a marriage proposal set by parents.
- Stays in Bangalore but goes to Mt. Abu at least once a year for important functions.
- - She is quite happy in what she is doing. If she is pulled from that she cannot adjust in usual society.
Impression:
- My impression is that she is still somewhat level headed. It's like living two lifes, one the earlier life and one a BK life.
- - How long will she be associated with BK. Will it be lifetime. Or is there chance of herself understanding and coming back.
- Will she go to Madhuban full time.
- What will happen at old age, when she is not physically strong? Will the BKWSU take care of her?