15 Apr 2015
My grandmother once shared her technique for dealing with difficult, troublesome, frightening authority figures. She used to imagine them naked and then look them up and down from head to foot ending up at their eyes. Not the advice the BKs would give ... but it worked for her. You need to find you own.
Please allow me to say this ...
You were attracted to the Brahma Kumaris to ask for assistance with personal problems, probably via BK Shivani's TV programme.
The BKs really don't give that kind of help.
The Brahma Kumaris are end End of the World cult who want to exploit your fears, weaknesses, vulnerabilities and insecurities to hook you in and then brainwash you; to exploit you financially, to take your labour for free and even turn you into a servant of the cult.
We do not.
I am guessing you have other confidence or even familial problems and that this problem is just what counsellors call the immediate or "presenting problem" ... the initial symptom motivating a patient to consult a counsellor. We all do, so I am not being personal here.
Again, those are the kinds of issues the BKs prey on, keeping you coming back for course after course, and going further into their cult beliefs, to "slow cook" you into becoming one of them.
You need to find non-cult support and advice, e.g a careers guidance teacher, or if you have other problems, a wise counsellor who has no other motives.
We can tell you what the BKs really believe. I suspect you really don't want to know at this time in your life.