Ahh, the truth will eventually come out ... even for the BK org.
Yes, we look at the beginnings, a psychotic Indian channeling entities and a society which looks down on women and sexually abuses them ... a mad man, and a group of women who hate their husbands and have a lot of psychological issues from sex abuse (no wonder sex is so bad). Throw in a country with a caste system ... a great recipe for a cult beginning, world madness and domination.
I believe, as Ex-i has said, that one of the problems is the lack of scrutinisation that goes on in the recruitment stage. I finally managed to get my partner angry enough that a few things came out that even surprised him. In summary ... he is an alcohlic, he stopped going to AA and became a BK, found that it wasn't really for him after a few years, managed OK, met me and went back to BKs.
Why? Easy, the disease of denial. Initially when he was with me, he was 'high' on being in love. The chemicals released by our bodies! When things settle down as they do, the 'high' diminished. I was at work every evening and not around. So what does he blame the diminishment of ecstatic feelings on? Our relationship, of course, not his addiction.
So, he needs that 'feel good' thing to happen, plus the pre-programing previously from the BKs. He goes back. He has to become more and more involved in order to get the same fix. It still is not working. Now, as I see it, he has two addictions to conquer. Alcohol and the BKs. He accused me of letting him slide downhill over 12 months and did nothing ... Denial, denial, denial to shirk responsibility. He admits he is so close to having a drink. At least it is out in the open now. Stupid man thought that a good loving relationship would cure all, just as he thinks BKs would cure all. How back to front is that?
He is still denying that his meditation won't control his alcohol ... but, as i said, it's not working is it? You can only run for so long before you have to face it.
So, the responsibilities of the BKWSU? Shameless. To recruit people and not to monitor their reasonings for joining, for wanting meditation, to monitor their progress, to actually con them and have no regard or responsibility towards and individuals welfare is beyond disgusting. To use a person's need to find God and apply spiritualism in their lives ...
What they are doing is incorporating the lowest forms of human behaviour for self gain at the personal cost of groups and individuals. The quotes below are from and this article (click to link)
The Battle for Your Mind by Dick Sutphen and give a factual account of the methods used to induce the chemical release of the brain, just what the addict needs to continue to get their fix or medicine. All under the guise of God.
Dick Sutphen wrote:The second thought stopping technique is MEDITATION. If you spend an hour to an hour and a half a day in meditation, after a few weeks, there is a great probability that you will not return to full beta consciousness. You will remain in a fixed state of alpha for as long as you continue to meditate.
I am not saying this is bad - if you do it yourself. It may be very beneficial. But it is a fact that you are causing your mind to go flat. I've worked with meditators on an EEG machine and the results are conclusive: the more you meditate, the flatter your mind becomes until, eventually and especially if used to excess or in combination with decognition, all thought ceases. Some spiritual groups see this as nirvana - which is bullsh**. It is simply a predictable physiological result. And if heaven on earth is non-thinking and non-involvement, I really question why we are here.
Combine that with;
Before I continue, let me point out something else about an altered state of consciousness. When you go into an altered state, you transfer into right brain, which results in the internal release of the body's own opiates: enkephalins and Beta-endorphins, chemically almost identical to opium. In other words, it feels good ... and you want to come back for more.
A junkies/addicts dream come true, opiates on tap, and free!
And last but not least, hurray for toli and the no meat, no garlic no onions diet ... result
Step One is ALERTNESS REDUCTION: The controllers cause the nervous system to malfunction, making it difficult to distinguish between fantasy and reality.
This can be accomplished in several ways. POOR DIET is one; watch out for Brownies and Koolaid. The sugar throws the nervous system off. More subtle is the "SPIRITUAL DIET" used by many cults. They eat only vegetables and fruits; without the grounding of grains, nuts, seeds, dairy products, fish or meat, an individual becomes mentally "spacey." INADEQUATE SLEEP is another primary way to reduce alertness, especially when combined with long hours of work or intense physical activity. Also, being bombarded with intense and unique experiences achieves the same result.
What will happen is up to him. He can continue getting high and hit rock bottom, lose everything or he can pull his finger out, stop making his excuses and denials and go and do something he should never have stopped. Talk about a mammoth feel sorry for one self. "I am an alcoholic, i am unable to ever have a healthy relationship, I am doomed, I am, I, I, I ..."
The BKWSU should be blown out of existence. It is nothing but a demon and a scourge on the earth using whatever deceptive and dishonest means it can to use unsuspecting and vulnerable people for its own ends. Well, the nice wife is not around now, I have stopped crying for the moment, and I am at war (again).
I live with an dual addict, alcohol and a cult. I am off to the first Al-Anon meeting available. I get the BK kiss on the cheek, I tell him to shove it and stick it where the sun doesnt shine. Give me the real thing (and he did). No more pussy footing around, treating him with kid gloves. There is a new understanding here. What happens is up to him. If he doesnt go to AA within a fortnight he can leave. Without it he is incapable of leaving the BKs, incapable of not ending up drinking and incapable of having a relationship. Off to the solicitor's appointment tomorrow. I am sick and tired of people feeling sorry for themselves and using the BK doctrine to give them every excuse under God's name (ARRGGGHHH) to treat everyone on earth like s****.
It is due to this forum that I have been shown what this organization is really about and some of the most dispicable methods they use. I would not be getting through this without you. I have to fight the war on the home-front first, when that is finished (either result), then I can start the global. I won't forget what has been done to my family, nor do I forget he is ultimately responsible for his actions.