Morning again Mbbhat
I have read your post above several times and I think I understand what you are saying in it. I also understand and recognise that you and I have created a stronger forum relationship over the last few days and I appreciate you recognising this too. I do also see the honesty of your post and that you have most certainly changed your 'approach' - if we can call it such and it shows in your choice of wording and comments.
However, I am sure that you will agree with me that it is not my place to comment on the on or off-line relationship between any members of this forum and if you are experiencing some negative interaction with any particular person then one can always avoid interacting with that person too. Our attitude, behaviour and approach is is a defined choice is it not?
But I would also ask you to sit back for a few minutes and consider asking yourself if everyone on the forum has the same problem with that same person you are having a problem dealing with? Your answer surely must be to see that I (just as an small example), do not have a bad relationship with any one person currently posting on this forum (even those who are BKs and PBKs ) because I choose to interact in a different way when I need to, exactly as I am interacting with you right at this moment.
I do have some suggestions for you which may assist you in having a more easier time on the forum, if you take a deep breath and then choose to allow me to tell you what I think could assist, let me know and I will post them accordingly and le us see if anyone else on the forum also agrees. In that way we will then have created a better forum space for all of us to be involved in.
I have read your post above several times and I think I understand what you are saying in it. I also understand and recognise that you and I have created a stronger forum relationship over the last few days and I appreciate you recognising this too. I do also see the honesty of your post and that you have most certainly changed your 'approach' - if we can call it such and it shows in your choice of wording and comments.
However, I am sure that you will agree with me that it is not my place to comment on the on or off-line relationship between any members of this forum and if you are experiencing some negative interaction with any particular person then one can always avoid interacting with that person too. Our attitude, behaviour and approach is is a defined choice is it not?
But I would also ask you to sit back for a few minutes and consider asking yourself if everyone on the forum has the same problem with that same person you are having a problem dealing with? Your answer surely must be to see that I (just as an small example), do not have a bad relationship with any one person currently posting on this forum (even those who are BKs and PBKs ) because I choose to interact in a different way when I need to, exactly as I am interacting with you right at this moment.
I do have some suggestions for you which may assist you in having a more easier time on the forum, if you take a deep breath and then choose to allow me to tell you what I think could assist, let me know and I will post them accordingly and le us see if anyone else on the forum also agrees. In that way we will then have created a better forum space for all of us to be involved in.