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Tom's post has sound advice.
The very thought of the term "BK" can trigger off huge emotions for some people. So being an "ex-BK" doesn't even help. This forum can have an opposite effect on some as it bring out the past. Is this forum helping folks or not ? This forum exists whilst the BKWSU exists. An ex-BK will still exist when the BKWSU doesn't. And doesn't that stink.
However, if any person can find in their past some good parts of their journey and hold onto that fond moments, use that to extinguish all the other things, and move on. Instead of holding on to the things you hate, rather hold onto the moments you loved. (Of course, someone is going to say that what was thought to be loved was a fake, but that is your own decision. Even if things are fake, you can still love them, after all how much more fake or even real can it get further).
Mind you, that term "BK" will still be deeply ingrained in the brain cells for some who have been in Gyan deep, but at least it won't be on the surface. It may resurface later, but one hopes that by that time other things in the other 3-4 brain cells will be plenty to suppress that all annoying "BK" term.
A while back, Mr Green had left this forum and I thought that was good (meaning I thought he had found a way out). This is why when anyone says they are leaving this forum, I bid them farewell, not ask them back. Because I don't want them back (in a friendly way). It has done its job. Or so it seems.
And I am still here.
p.s. for that reason stated above, I still support the use of NO LABELS. It serves no meaning and simply triggers emotions directed untowards. Someone who "likes" the BKs does not mean they support it or have anything to do with it. Why put words into someone's position? Someone who is a BK will posts plenty of Murli points and talk Gyan points from morning to night. Someone who likes the BKs has accepted them as they are and moved on. I like apples and Powerpuff girls and paper packages tied up with string, but I don't worship them. I like Manchester United, but I don't support them.
Get a grip of yourselves. (Stranglers). My advice, up to you.
mr green wrote:My life was completely ravaged and ruined by the BKs.
The very thought of the term "BK" can trigger off huge emotions for some people. So being an "ex-BK" doesn't even help. This forum can have an opposite effect on some as it bring out the past. Is this forum helping folks or not ? This forum exists whilst the BKWSU exists. An ex-BK will still exist when the BKWSU doesn't. And doesn't that stink.
However, if any person can find in their past some good parts of their journey and hold onto that fond moments, use that to extinguish all the other things, and move on. Instead of holding on to the things you hate, rather hold onto the moments you loved. (Of course, someone is going to say that what was thought to be loved was a fake, but that is your own decision. Even if things are fake, you can still love them, after all how much more fake or even real can it get further).
Mind you, that term "BK" will still be deeply ingrained in the brain cells for some who have been in Gyan deep, but at least it won't be on the surface. It may resurface later, but one hopes that by that time other things in the other 3-4 brain cells will be plenty to suppress that all annoying "BK" term.
A while back, Mr Green had left this forum and I thought that was good (meaning I thought he had found a way out). This is why when anyone says they are leaving this forum, I bid them farewell, not ask them back. Because I don't want them back (in a friendly way). It has done its job. Or so it seems.
And I am still here.
p.s. for that reason stated above, I still support the use of NO LABELS. It serves no meaning and simply triggers emotions directed untowards. Someone who "likes" the BKs does not mean they support it or have anything to do with it. Why put words into someone's position? Someone who is a BK will posts plenty of Murli points and talk Gyan points from morning to night. Someone who likes the BKs has accepted them as they are and moved on. I like apples and Powerpuff girls and paper packages tied up with string, but I don't worship them. I like Manchester United, but I don't support them.
Get a grip of yourselves. (Stranglers). My advice, up to you.