Another family heading for a breakdown, more stress in the meanwhile.
The Brahma Kumaris are social and spiritual parasites. They should stop interfering with other people's families and stealing members. Check out their marital relationship advice ...
The Brahma Kumaris are social and spiritual parasites. They should stop interfering with other people's families and stealing members. Check out their marital relationship advice ...
following the path of celibacy
I am a new BK .. have spent six months in Gyan. I want to follow all dharnas and contribute my whole self in Baba's Yagya. There are several obstacles .. first are my inner fears which I am trying to conquer through Yoga and have been successful partly. Also my family doesn't cooperate in having satvik food (i.e. having food without onion garlic and not having outside food) .at least I try to have satvik food myself when I am at home. I am also trying to gear up courage to fight this and I am sure one day I'll be successful.
We are Sikhs and also there are reservations against my becoming a BK because of this.
Also I've been married only two years and I am three months pregnant ... we had planned to have two children but after becoming BK I am highly inspired to become ceibate but out of internal fears and lack of courage am not able to express this to my husband. He has also done seven day RajYoga meditation course but has not continued it ... he can sense my deep desire to be celibate and does not feel good about it but cooperates with me most of the time due to my pregnancy. though he is kind hearted but has become very very insecure due to my lack of Interest in physical intimacy. I know I will not be able to avoid his advances after few months. Plus our decision to have 2-3 children wil also be questioned.
I read on one of your answers that its babas directions to lie in a bodiless stage and remember Baba if such a situation comes ... and I will try to do the same. But I don't want to do so whole life ... is it any way I can convince my husband, who is otherwise a very sweet and humble being, to follow Baba's srimat and follow the path of purity? I've been trying to do so but no success till now. My efforts only make him more agitated and insecure.
Because of his insecurities and my lack of courage to go against him and my family I also have to spend less time in centre and cannot commit myself wholly to Baba's Yagya though I deeply wish to do so.**